"O" is for Open-Mindedness
When was the last time you truly listened to a perspective different from your own? As leaders and teachers, our role is to listen to understand, not simply to respond. I often remind myself of this truth with a saying: "We were born with two ears and one mouth, so G-d wants us to listen twice as much as we speak!" Open-mindedness is at the heart of effective leadership. It requires us to stay calm and present, even when we’re confronted with perspectives that challenge our own. Our task, as leaders, is to "bridge the gap" between differing viewpoints to create understanding and connection. Recently, I worked with a group of teachers grappling with a contentious topic that sparked strong emotions on all sides. Leading a group through this kind of conflict requires more than just keeping an open mind; it means helping others do the same. How do we achieve this? By listening intently—not to prove a point, but to find common ground. As I facilitated the discussion, ...